In 2005, Auckland’s queer nightlife was in constant flux—new bars opened with a bang, only to disappear within a year or two. That was until Wayne Clark launched Family Bar on Karangahape Road. With its bold, industrial-inspired vibe and inclusive ethos, Family didn’t just survive—it thrived. Now celebrating 20 vibrant years, Family stands as Aotearoa’s longest-running gay bar and a cherished hub for Auckland’s LGBTQ+ community.
From G.A.Y. to Family
Wayne Clark wasn’t new to the scene before Family came to life. In 1999, he opened G.A.Y. in downtown Auckland, which lasted until 2002. That was followed by The Wonder Bar on O’Connell Street (which stuck around for 18 months), and the short-lived Splash—“a disaster,” Clark says candidly. But none of those could match the lasting impact of Family.
The Turning Point
One of Clark’s smartest calls came early—placing legendary drag queen Miss Ribena at the door. For nearly the entire 20 years, she’s been the first face guests see. “Nothing compared to Family,” Clark reflects, noting that around a dozen gay bars have come and gone in Auckland since Family opened. Yet this venue has stood the test of time.
Constant Evolution
What began as a single-level club with lofty warehouse ceilings—taking cues from nightlife in Europe—gradually grew. Today, Family is a sprawling complex of five distinct spaces: the Down Under underground club, the adjacent Queen Bar, karaoke haunt Saloon, and the hidden Garden Bar out back. With zones for dancing to DJs, drag shows, relaxed chats and karaoke, it’s a constantly evolving party. “There’s always something new going on,” says Wayne.
Family Through The Years
A Venue for All
From the start, Family has embraced inclusivity—welcoming people of all sexualities and gender identities. As the bar’s popularity grew with straight partygoers, Wayne saw the need for an even more explicitly queer space. That idea became G.A.Y Auckland, opened just doors away, now expanded to two levels with Pink Pony.
Challenges and Community
Like every venue, Family faced huge hurdles during the COVID-19 pandemic. Lockdowns and distancing requirements pushed many bars to the brink. But Wayne credits generous landlords and loyal staff for keeping the lights on. “Ribena, Wazza, Grady, Washington”—many of the original team are still part of the whānau today.
Milestone Moments
Some of Wayne’s favourite memories include massive birthday parties filled with MPs, musicians, and TV personalities. The tenth birthday saw Julian Clary and Gok Wan attend, and queues after the Pride Parade still wrap down K Road year after year.
Looking Ahead
Even in today’s challenging hospo climate, Family continues without regular door charges. “People (especially students) have it hard enough finding the money to buy drinks… let alone pay at the door,” Wayne explains, showing his commitment to accessibility.
A Living Legacy
In an industry known for quick turnarounds and passing trends, Family’s 20-year journey is more than a business win. It’s a love letter to Tāmaki Makaurau’s queer community and chosen whānau.
Whether it’s a karaoke duet at 2am, a first kiss on the dancefloor, or a Pride party that spills into the street—Family is etched into the memories of generations.
To mark the occasion, Family Bar will host its 20th birthday bash from 6pm on Sunday 31 August at 270 Karangahape Road, Auckland. No cover charge—just aroha, joy, and celebration.
