Dr Mataroria Lyndon answers your health-related questions
I’m on PrEP and pretty on top of my sexual health, but I still feel judged when I talk honestly with doctors about my sex life. How do you ensure queer patients can speak openly without fear of shame?
That experience of feeling judged is something a lot of queer people carry, and it can make it harder to be open, even when you’re doing all the right things for your health.
At Tend, we’re very clear that our role is to support, not judge. Being on PrEP and staying proactive about your sexual health is something to be encouraged. Conversations about sex should feel normal, not uncomfortable or loaded.
That comes down to how clinicians show up: using inclusive language, asking open questions, and not making assumptions about partners or behaviour. We focus on creating a space where you can speak honestly, because that’s what leads to the best care.
You should feel like your doctor is on your side: someone you can be upfront with, without worrying about being judged or shut down.
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