Category: New Zealand

Aug 04
Top Picks For Winter Pride 2024

Winter Pride turns 21 this month! Chase away the winter blues with ten days of celebrations in Queenstown from Thursday, 22 August, to Sunday, 1 September. Here are YOUR ex’s picks of the festival’s must-attend events: Pride Dinner 2024 | Friday 23rd August Kick off the festivities with a stylish dinner at Yonder, Queenstown’s best […]

Aug 02
OPINION: Are You Suffering From Dating Fatigue?

Take Dick Richards’ Dating Quiz to find out! Dating Fatigue: It’s more regular than the common flu and can affect us for years. It can influence our moods and our outlook on what our future could look like, and it can keep us isolated. What feelings come to mind when I say ‘dating’ or ‘the […]

Aug 02
OPINION: Do We Have Shortage Of Masc Queer Women?

Jessie Lewthwaite is a rare masc-lesbian swimming in a sea of femme sapphics. So what’s a masc-attracted girl to do? Walking down the stairs into the basement club, I am confronted with a sea of wall-to-wall femmes. This was one of Auckland’s rare queer women-who-love-women (WLW) nights. The crowd skewed younger, which was understandable since […]

Aug 02
OPINION: Transitioning – It’s Not All Guns Or Roses!

Many trans people believe beginning hormone replacement therapy (HRT) and undergoing surgery will make everything in their lives better. Unfortunately, the reality is not always the case, says Eli Luke Michel. You’ve been waiting for this moment for as long as you can remember. Anticipation has built as you’ve waited months after a referral to […]

Jul 25
Robbie Manson: Our Olympic Dream

Just a day before winning bronze at the 2024 World Rowing Cup III in Poland, Robbie Manson talks to YOUR ex about competing in the Men’s Double Sculls at the Paris 2024 Olympics. At the time of this interview, we are six weeks out from the start of the 2024 Olympics. How are you feeling […]

Jul 25
Palmy Drag Fest: Bringing Glitter & Glamour To ‘Balmy Palmy’

Palmerston North is set to come alive with colour, glamour and fabulous performances as the Palmy Drag Fest returns for its fourth year from Wednesday 2 to Sunday 6 October. Henrique Beirao, AKA the dazzling drag queen Rhubarb Rouge, the mastermind behind Palmy Drag Fest, shares the personal stories that have shaped this remarkable event. […]

Jul 25
Rainbow Labour: Protecting Our Progress

Shanan Halbert MP Spokesperson for Rainbow Issues reflects on World Pride Month. Following Pride Month and Schools’ Pride Week, we’ve been reflecting on how Labour can best advocate for our Rainbow community, amid National’s reckless choices which are taking us backwards. Labour has a proud track record of advancing equal rights. We led the charge […]

Jul 22
The Hottest Pics From URGE Wunderbar Party

Sexy men filled Lyttelton’s Wunderbar on Saturday for an URGE party with a difference.  For the first time, URGE hosted a Christchurch party outside of the CBD, heading to the port town of Lyttelton with a sexy ‘Bouys and Seamen’ theme! DJ Gregor (Christchurch), Winner Mick (Wellington) and Everett (Auckland) kept the dance floor thumbing […]