Category: Opinion

Mar 20
Opinion: Family First’s Influence on New Zealand First

Family First is a key pressure group in quashing the Relationships & Sexuality Curriculum. Craig Young examines their influence on NZ First. Family First was founded in 2006, primarily in opposition to the end of parental corporal punishment as the Clark Labour government repealed Section 59 of the Crimes Act 1961. It happened anyway and […]

Mar 13
Opinion: Graham Linehan’s New Zealand Visit Is Doomed

Irish comedy writer and anti-transgender activist Graham Linehan has been ‘invited’ to New Zealand by the libertarian “Free Speech Union” and Craig Young has thoughts. For those of us with long memories, Linehan was the creator of sitcom Father Ted.  It was humorous enough at the time, although it wildly exaggerated the extent of Catholic influence […]

Mar 09
Where Is The Best Place To Be A Single Gay Man In New Zealand?

Dick Richards analyses what dating apps are offering gay and bisexual men in the different parts of Aotearoa New Zealand. A friend of mine moved to Auckland with a dream – to find a career and a man. Instead, he left with a broken heart and an STI. There’s nothing particularly heinous about him, so […]

Mar 09
Why Straight Men Should Be A Gay Man’s Best Friend

Best known for his four-legged friends, Woof Rainbow Dog Show founder Steven Oates returns to YOUR ex to bestow the virtues of friendships with straight men. I love straight men. I know that as gay men we are prone to the odd crush on the straight guy at work, the tradie down the road or […]

Mar 06
Looking For Love That Lasts Beyond The First Meet?

Dick Richards preaches abstinence… well, for the first date anyway. Have you ever wondered why a fuckbuddy or a hook-up never turns into anything more? Let me ask you this: If your flesh-light or dildo could talk, would you strike up a conversation with it? I’m guessing not. What’s the correlation, you ask? It’s quite […]

Mar 06
Opinion: Who are you calling ‘Cis’?

Elijah Luke Michel explores the origins of the term ‘cisgender’ and searches for an alternative to appease those who find it offensive. Over the years I have often wondered who coined the term ‘cisgender’ and what they were thinking? Innocently introduced in 1994 to highlight cis-normativity and cis-sexism (a bias towards cisgender people) by researcher […]

Mar 01
Social Media and Homophobic Violence in Christchurch

Craig Young reflects on recent attacks on gay men in Christchurch using the hook-up app Grindr. In Christchurch, a recent trial disclosed that a group of Christchurch teenagers have been using the gay/bi/MSM hookup app Grindr to target gay men. The teenagers used the app to lure local gay male users of the app to […]

Feb 16
Marching To Nowhere: The Return of Brian Tamaki

Craig Young shudders at yet another attempt at relevancy from Brian Tamaki. If you thought Brian Tamaki was being far too quiet, unfortunately, it seems he didn’t take the hint when his latest Freedoms New Zealand puppet party bombed at the polls. The “Bishop of Bling” is planning a national march next month, on March 5, […]