Opinion: Michael Stevens on Allies
Michael Stevens questions, who are our allies, and how much space should we give them in our organisations and our world?
It used to be...
Opinion: Richard O’Brien On Religion
Concerned by the recent well-publicised displays of homophobia and transphobia in Tauranga, Bay of Plenty resident and Rocky Horror Picture Show writer Richard O’Brien...
So, you fucked up someone’s pronouns. Now what?
Wait - did you just misgender that person out loud? Don't despair! George Fowler presents a step-by-step guide to saving the situation and making...
Gay Dating: The C Word is Compromise!
It’s inevitable that people change over time, but what happens when you are in a long-term relationship with that person? Dick Richards braces himself...
Dating: When Besties Become Cockblockers
Ever wondered why that great sexy guy with the annoyingly possessive best friend is always single? No, you haven’t. You know exactly why! Dick...
Being Called ‘A Fa**ot’ In Public
What does it mean when a stranger shouts the f-word at a queer person in the street? Michael Stevens examines the impact.
“Ya stupid faggot!”...
OPINION: Befriending your Ex
How to pivot from a relationship to a friendship. Fresh off appearing on TVNZ’s The Ex Best Thing, Zakk d’Larte shares his top tips for...
How Body Image & Beauty Standards Affect Gay Men
All cultures have an idea of what physical beauty is. They place value on it, and conversely on what ugly and unattractive are. Deep...
