Rainbow Counsellor Lisa Luke Michelle is here to help with your problems.
Q My partner and I have been together for two years now, and recently he suggested we invite a mutual friend into the relationship. Our friend is a fab guy and we both adore him, but I feel dirty – like I’d be cheating on my partner if we began to get intimate. I actually think the three of us could be in a wonderful long-term relationship if it wasn’t for my fears. How might I overcome this?
A It’s always tricky to get our head around situations that are deemed tainted by the world. It sounds like you’d make a lovely family if you were to see polygamy in a different light – where all partners are aware of each other, where clear boundaries are established, and where everyone’s needs are met. This is NOT Polygamy…it is love.