Category: Lifestyle

Sep 01
Gay Dating: Attachment Issues

When it comes to dating, Dick Richard’s two biggest red flags are behaviours he himself is guilty of. So how do we avoid attachment issues, both in ourselves and others? When it comes to dating and relationships, I have found there are two common red flags that will put everything on pause and possibly ruin […]

Aug 28
Celebrate Honolulu Pride This October

With unique parties, parades, outdoor celebrations, and special discounted flights, it’s time to celebrate pride in Hawaiʻi this October. YOUR EX has all the details. Honolulu Pride Month is just around the corner, promising a vibrant celebration of love, diversity, and inclusivity. Mark your calendars for the highly anticipated “Rooted In Pride: Homecoming” event on […]

Aug 13
Clearlight Saunas: Retreat Into Warmth This Winter

Forget the classic Kiwi spa pool, installing a Clearlight infrared sauna at home is the ultimate in luxury, providing healthy heat to keep you glowing all year round. We were staying at Gibbston Valley Lodge in Queenstown when the inspiration to get our own sauna first bloomed. The lodge boasts outdoor hot pools and a […]

Aug 08
After The Party: How One Man Changed His Relationship With Meth

Nebbie* had known for a while that his use was becoming problematic. He was unable to have sex without being high, his physical health was going backwards fast, and he’d burnt through $100,000 of his parents’ money.   So, in 2019 when he saw an ad for ReWired on Grindr, it was just a matter of […]

Aug 07
August’s Queer History of New Zealand

Historian Gareth Watkins explores August dates that had a significant impact on Aotearoa’s LGBTQ+ communities. 4 August 1908 The Crimes Act 1908 was enacted. The legislation consolidated various laws, including one from 1893, which outlawed any form of sexual contact between males. Even if the sexual activity was consensual between adults, the State saw it […]

Aug 03
VIDEO: AI Creates The Most Handsome Man from Every Country in The World

YouTube channel A.I Art Discovery uses artificial intelligence to artistic pictures. Recently they asked the AI to create a picture of the most handsome man from every country in the world, with some interesting results. Video below:

Jul 31
The Cook Islands: Paradise On Our Doorstep

With decriminalisation passed, it is now legal to be gay in the Cook Islands, a move that will hopefully see a wave of decriminalisation spread throughout the Pacific. What better way to celebrate this progress than with a stress-free getaway to relaxing Rarotonga and the peaceful perfection of Aitutaki? The warm air caresses your bare […]

Jul 26
Celebrate Honolulu Pride This October

With unique parties, parades, and outdoor celebrations, plus special discounted flights, it’s time to celebrate pride in Hawaii this October. YOUR ex has all the details. Honolulu Pride Month is just around the corner, promising a vibrant celebration of love, diversity, and inclusivity. Mark your calendars for the highly anticipated “Rooted In Pride: Homecoming” event […]