So, you fucked up someone’s pronouns. Now what?
Wait - did you just misgender that person out loud? Don't despair! George Fowler presents a step-by-step guide to saving the situation and making...
Gay Dating: The C Word is Compromise!
It’s inevitable that people change over time, but what happens when you are in a long-term relationship with that person? Dick Richards braces himself...
Dating: When Besties Become Cockblockers
Ever wondered why that great sexy guy with the annoyingly possessive best friend is always single? No, you haven’t. You know exactly why! Dick...
Being Called ‘A Fa**ot’ In Public
What does it mean when a stranger shouts the f-word at a queer person in the street? Michael Stevens examines the impact.
“Ya stupid faggot!”...
OPINION: Befriending your Ex
How to pivot from a relationship to a friendship. Fresh off appearing on TVNZ’s The Ex Best Thing, Zakk d’Larte shares his top tips for...
How Body Image & Beauty Standards Affect Gay Men
All cultures have an idea of what physical beauty is. They place value on it, and conversely on what ugly and unattractive are. Deep...
Gay Dating: When A Negative Mindset is Necessary
While we all hate those dating app profiles that only mention what they’re not looking for, Dick Richards believes it’s smart to know what...
Opinion: It Might Be Easier, But It Still Isn’t Easy
21-year-old student Will rejects the claim that ‘it’s easy to be gay these days.’
It has been terrifying, numbing and frustrating, and I’ve told myself...
