Category: Opinion

Oct 16
Opinion: New Zealand Voters Don’t Want Anti-Trans Rhetoric

In an election where many voters turned away from the major parties, New Zealand’s fringe micro-parties still failed to gain any traction with their anti-vaccine and anti-trans rights platforms. Craig Young hopes this will show wannabe politicians it is time to move away from bashing the trans community.    Well, our three-yearly electoral competition is […]

Sep 18
Posie Parker Supporter’s Protest: Pick Your Battles

Posie Parker is no-longer returning to NZ but some of her supporters still plan to protest at the court hearing of Eli Rubashkyn, Michael Stevens asks when is a protest worth it, and when does it just throw petrol on a fire? That’s a question that activists sometimes have to consider. And it’s worth considering […]

Sep 01
Gay Dating: Attachment Issues

When it comes to dating, Dick Richard’s two biggest red flags are behaviours he himself is guilty of. So how do we avoid attachment issues, both in ourselves and others? When it comes to dating and relationships, I have found there are two common red flags that will put everything on pause and possibly ruin […]

Sep 01
Auckland’s Alternative Queer Scene

Lesbian In The Wild, Jessie Lewthwaite, goes off the beaten gay path to find Auckland’s alternative queer scene. Inside a bar I would normally associate with hairy straight men who think basic hygiene is gay, I’m standing waiting for a drag show to start.  The show is best described as androgyny fuelled with heavy metal. […]

Aug 13
Human Rights Act Amendment Bill: It’s About Time!

The Human Rights Act (Prohibition of Discrimination on the Basis of Gender Identity, or Expression and Variations of Sex Characteristics) Amendment Bill is due for its first parliamentary reading.   It is imperative that this legislation succeeds, given that trans people have only the ‘second class’ antidiscrimination status of inclusion within sex after the late […]

Jul 31
Gay Dating: Desire In The Age Of Instagram

Dick Richards returns to Your Ex to extract the realities of relationships out of the heavily filtered lives of ‘happy’ Instagram couples. Whatever situation we’re in, whether it be single or in a relationship, we can always see the greener grass. But nowadays, people’s grass is severely filtered through social media or a bit tongue. […]

Jul 31
Lesbian In The Wild: “Do you want kids?”

Jessie Lewthwaite dreads the inevitable question with an answer that just seems so obvious. I’m standing in a backyard, pretending to care about what genitals a baby has. As much as I enjoy enforcing gender stereotypes on a child before it’s even born, for some reason, this ‘gender reveal’ party hasn’t put me in the […]

Jul 25
The Real Legacy James Wallace Will Leave

James Wallace was the millionaire businessman fighting for name suppression and claiming his innocence. Despite his many contributions to the Arts, James Wallace will be remembered for his multiple assault convictions. He’s a nasty, entitled piece of work, and the men who took him to court deserve nothing but our admiration. It must have been […]