Category: Opinion

Dec 17
Navigating The Good, Bad & Ugly Of International Travel As A Gay Woman 

With 25 years of experience working in the travel industry, visiting all corners of the globe, there isn’t much Linkd Tourism’s General Manager Kylee Kay hasn’t seen. From a nightmare experience to profound beauty and travelling safely as a queer family with her partner and son, she shares her top travel tips.  What do you […]

Dec 04
OPINION: ‘Masc’ And ‘Femme’ Are Meaningless Labels 

Jessie Lewthwaite skewers old-fashioned heteronormative relationship dynamics.  Being in a modern millennial queer relationship means certain traditions must be upheld. We must call our dog our ‘furbaby’`, we must drink iced coffees and we must watch TikToks together before bed. This is just our ‘culture’.   One night while participating in the TikTok ritual, one popped […]

Nov 29
Shanan Halbert: Speak Up On Puberty Blockers To Protect Our Trans And Non-Binary Rangatahi 

Labour’s spokesperson for Rainbow Issues, Shanan Halbert, stands firm on puberty blocker access.  New Zealand has now had a year of the coalition government, and to mark the anniversary, we heard some deliberately misleading murmurs from ACT and Winston Peters about access to puberty blockers. This kind of rhetoric is alarming and ignorant.  I would […]

Nov 08
Remembering Us In The Real World Starts On Screen

Elijah Luke Michel discusses the need for trans recognition, remembrance and role modelling in film and television as Transgender Day of Remembrance approaches (Wednesday 20 November). I find it fascinating that there’s only one day each year – for those who are aware of it – dedicated to remembering the lives lost by people in […]

Nov 06
Trump vs. Harris: LGBTQ+ Rights in the Spotlight on Election Day

As Americans head to the polls to pick the next President of the United States, YOUR ex takes a look at both candidates and how they compare regarding LGBTQ+ rights. It’s no surprise that former President Donald Trump and Vice President Kamala Harris take starkly different approaches to LGBTQ+ protections and policies. As a large […]

Oct 25
Puberty Blockers: Understanding A Controversial Conversation

Eli Luke Michel ‘thinks of the children’ and discusses the medication subscribed to trans kids entering puberty.  “Won’t somebody please think of the children?!” It’s a popular line in the animated sitcom The Simpsons whenever the town is thrown into chaos, but it’s also pertinent to the issue of transgender children having access to hormone blockers.   It’s […]

Oct 25
A Lesbian In The Wild: Love Languages For Queer Women 

Jessie Lewthwaite says ‘love languages’ are a straight man’s concept, so she has created some of her own!  While out with friends, the topic of love languages came up. At my age, basically all my friends are couples, and hanging out together looks like three or four sets of couples crowded around a table at […]

Oct 11
Mpox And The Return of Homophobic Stigma?

Recent media coverage of a New Zealand Mpox outbreak reminds Michael Stevens of the stigma faced by HIV+ communities. This year’s Winter Pride saw an outbreak of Mpox (formerly known as Monkey Pox). There was a definite whiff of hysteria in how it was reported. And a number of gay men, especially older ones, feared […]