Category: Opinion

Aug 13
Gay Dating: Sending Nude Selfies

We’ve all taken a nude selfie that captured just the right angle and during a flirty online chat shared it with others, but should we? Dick Richards asks what we are really giving away. The internet is a digital ocean – and we are dripping. Every day we dunk ourselves in it, we drink from […]

Aug 13
Opinion: Michael Stevens “Activism Without Allies Is Ineffective”

Michael Stevens is putting a ring on it, and this unexpected twist in his life story has him reflecting on activism, legality and love. Can you hear the bells? Shopping for wedding rings – this is not something I ever imagined doing when I was a young gay man. But it’s what my fiancé and […]

Aug 11
Who Is Allowed To Call Themselves Trans?

Did you know there is an unwritten rulebook that defines who can identify as trans? Judy Virago didn’t realise until she started transitioning and discovered a minefield of damaging expectations waiting for her. Here she shares the truth: only you should get to define your identity. When I made the decision to live my life […]

Jun 24
Opinion: How Kita Mean’s Coronation United Our Community

For several years we as a community (especially in Auckland) have been divided, both politically and ideologically. But for the past few months, Drag Race Down Under brought us back together, writes Steven Oates. On Saturday night, Kita Mean was crowned the winner of the first season of Rupaul’s Drag Race Down Under. You may […]

Jun 22
Laurel Hubbard: Olympic Bravery By A Trailblazing Athlete

Judy Virago shares her own experience of being a trans person in sports and fitness spaces, and believes after 15 years of trans athletes being eligible for the Olympics it is time one wore the silver fern and showed the world that ‘they are us.’ The mood was mighty cold for a hot yoga locker […]

Jun 14
TransAction – Repurposing Rage

When it feels like the world is against you, it’s instinctual to attack back, but Judy Virago says the key to victory is building bridges not tearing others down. We’re stronger united. During my first year on hormone therapy I was a Goddess of Destruction; pumped full of estrogen and angry at the world. My […]

May 14
Puberty Blockers: Cruelty or Kindness?

Judy Virago imagines a trans-childhood where puberty blockers prevent torturous teen years and concludes New Zealand is on the right path. In my second year of primary school, I made a new friend. His name was Gabriel, like the angel, and he had long beautiful blonde hair. He told me that he was actually a […]

May 11
Amanda Kennedy: Still a Fan, Without the Brigade

One half of Fan Brigade, Amanda Kennedy, is on hiatus from her genius comedy duo. Ahead of her solo material debut at the International Comedy Festival with her show Bumbshell, she tells express about her personal experience with bi-erasure. I’m bi-slash-pan. I just like whoever I like. I’ll talk a little bit about experiences being […]