Tag: Gay Dating
Dick Richards says we shouldn’t be ashamed of our desires and fantasies - they are an important part of who we are.
Who doesn’t love the excitement of a casual hook-up? The foreplay of the dirty chats, the tension in our pants when we get sent a dick pic, the...
Dick Richards analyses what dating apps are offering gay and bisexual men in the different parts of Aotearoa New Zealand.
A friend of mine moved to Auckland with a dream – to find a career and a man. Instead, he left with a broken heart and an STI. There’s nothing...
Dick Richards preaches abstinence… well, for the first date anyway.
Have you ever wondered why a fuckbuddy or a hook-up never turns into anything more? Let me ask you this: If your flesh-light or dildo could talk, would you strike up a conversation with it? I’m guessing not. What’s the...
Dick Richards realises that dating apps have become the ex he keeps going back to. So how do you break that cycle?
After years and years of dating and still never finding the right guy, you ask yourself ‘What is wrong with me?”
It’s not news that the gay dating world...
So the first date went well, and you’re thinking of going on a second, but there’s one niggling question on your mind. ‘How many people have they been with?’ Jessie Lewthwaite delves into why we really want to know.
Gin-soaked months of dating apps in Auckland's limited girl-for-girl scene somehow...
When it comes to dating, Dick Richard’s two biggest red flags are behaviours he himself is guilty of. So how do we avoid attachment issues, both in ourselves and others?
When it comes to dating and relationships, I have found there are two common red flags that will put everything...
Dick Richards returns to Your Ex to extract the realities of relationships out of the heavily filtered lives of ‘happy’ Instagram couples.
Whatever situation we’re in, whether it be single or in a relationship, we can always see the greener grass. But nowadays, people’s grass is severely filtered through social...
Former Mr Bear NZ, Matt Holster, channels his inner Sex & The City-era Carrie Bradshaw to discuss his experiences with open relationships.
In this day and age, with a continual focus on openness, diversity, inclusion and self-authenticity, I find myself wondering: “Is an open relationship status just the ‘flexitarian’* of...
