Category: Lifestyle

There’s more of a script for sex between cis and/or straight people than for people from Rainbow communities. That makes talking about consent super important for us. If you want one word to describe consent it’s yes.  Yes, this is what I want, and I want it now, with you. Consent means sharing responsibility for […]

Sex – a word that is associated with so many things; excitement, passion, fun… but fear, stress and pressure?! Losing your virginity can be a bit of a headache. For some, it’s as easy as an adventurous Year 11 camp, but for others, it’s more of a big deal. For those of you who are […]

When I was asked to write an article about sex, a hint of naughtiness blazed across my face like my Mills and Boons fantasy was about to come true. In my 41-year-old skin, I feel considerably settled. No, not settled, self-assured. A lot of books will tell you this happens. You don’t sweat the small […]

When it comes to your sex drive and how raunchy you feel in the bedroom, a big contributing factor is your testosterone levels. For most of us, an unusual dip in testosterone can mean your sex drive takes a big hit too – and we aren’t about to let that happen, especially coming in to […]

“I think I’m done with the sofa, I think I’m done with the hall, I think I’m done with the kitchen table, baby.” The late great George Michael said it best in his 1998 hit song, Outside, which he wrote after being arrested for “engaging in a lewd act” in a public rest room. How […]

Rainbow Counsellor Elijah Luke Michel is here to help with your problems: I’m in an open relationship with my partner. I have another boyfriend and we see each other weekly, and practice safe sex. My partner, however, has numerous bed-buddies (which is fine) but he sometimes he forgets to wear protection. Three times in the […]

Alright, ladies – let’s start with a bit of frank talk. Before I started working in a adult novelty store, I thought lubricant was just for anal sex, old people, and performance vehicles. I was oblivious, and I’ll admit it. So I’m here to let you in on a secret. Once you get a taste […]

Whether it’s morning sex, before-bed sex, steamy middle of the day sex (lucky), or any other type of sex, we all know how mind-blowingly amazing it feels, as well as being an important part of intimacy with your partner. But, what if we told you we know a few more surprising reasons to get freaky […]